I'm Filipino for sure, but the other parts of my blood I have Spanish, and even Israeli.
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Asian guys are lightweights.
I've thought a lot about this topic and have come to the conclusion that it's two factors: Love of Asian culture, we are very much aware of nuances, details of subtle cues and unspoken words, and are men to consider the other always.
In your new culture, this is less-so. I think that the language in the question is problematic.
Overly-fast approaches in Asia are viewed with suspicion. Because if he dies off, there goes our sole representation of a strong, brave and sexually competent Asian man on cable TV.
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On another website, one Asian male expresses:
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